Onion Girl by Ann Fleming
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"Be attentive to it" my husband said to me in bed as I described through tears and fear, a sadness that came in waves, as if a huge barrel had tipped and washed over me—collected from the many people who have more sadness than they can carry. That morning I had read a news story of another violent assault on a woman and her partner on a bus in Brazil. It filled me with a persistent dense ache that would not ease.
My husband didn't try to talk me out of it or cheer me up. He just held his normally happy, joy-filled wife while she worked to push words through her tight throat. I soon stopped trying to find words and lay quietly. "Be attentive" gave me something to do other than get anxious that I was "losing it."
"Yes, be attentive to it," I repeated out loud as I felt compassionate curiosity rise up and soften me. Listening now instead of trying to make the sadness and growing sense of hopelessness go away, I smiled and slept.
The feeling was there when I woke the next day and was noticeable through my smile as I greeted co-workers. "Are you ok?" a good friend asked. "Yes," I explained with wet eyes, "I am just carrying something heavy and sad and I am not sure why." At lunch I went to the staff room, happy to see my good friend sitting there. I felt myself become intently present and focussed on her. I asked, "How are you?" She began to talk. Her talking about every day things morphed into words about a sexual assault in her past and the raw shame that clung to her insides. This story, that she had never told before, met the sadness I carried and filled the room. We both cried. I felt an upswell of love for her and Love for all victims. The sadness felt sweet, as sadness can when shared with others. As I left the room, the heaviness and sadness lifted.
What do I believe? That we are more deeply, intimately connected than we think. Not just to those living around us, but to those who came before us whose DNA we share. I say: Be attentive to this. Expect to learn a different language.
Meanwhile, I teach my students. I swim laps. I ride my bike. I love my friends and family. I grumble about new aches and pains. But things are expanding anyway and I feel expectant. What I hear, sense, and feel is shifting and as I listen I hear more and more messages that seem to be coming from some back window of my mind I forgot to close. They need to be carried and shared.
At first this felt unsettling. Who opened that window anyway? But now the messages makes me feel deeply connected to a power that asks us to lean into the web of our interconnection—not just from human to human, but between everything. The asking is becoming more persistent. Listen for it. Rumi says it best:
People are going back and forth across the doorsill
where the two worlds touch.
The door is round and open.
Don’t go back to sleep.
Blessings and love to you,
Soul Flare Circle Leadership Training
Central to Soul Flare's mission is to support people in starting their own Soul Flare Circle, a safe and sacred container for the act of speaking our truth, creating ritual for life's transitions, setting intentions and receiving healing. To this end, we will offer a series of online webinar experiences to introduce people to the ancient and transformational practice of meeting in circle.
You do not need to have any experience to lead these circles. Remember that we have been gathering in circles since there was fire. We have only recently forgotten how.
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Worth SharingReader Beth Abernathy recommends Stephen and Ondrea Levine:
To Love and be Loved: The Difficult Yoga of Relationships, by Stephen and Ondrea Levine. In this 5 tape exploration of treating relationship as the primary spiritual path, the Levines are a profound healing force for the absolute and unconditional way in which they walk their talk. They have spent decades working with the sick and the dying, and from doing so have discovered that the most difficult, and thus most potentially healing aspect of our lives comes through how we relate to ourselves and thus to others. In their perspective based on their deep experience--not belief or dogma--everything comes down to absolute compassion, mercy, kindness, non-judgment. They offer plenty of stories, both personal and mythic, and share many kinds of tools, like directed meditations, to convey their message of how to live in the world from a place of freedom and open-heartedness.
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